The 4 Types of Vietnamese Women You Will Date in Vietnam

Any guy that has been in Vietnam, or Asia in general, will notice they seem to date/bang the same “types” of women.

This article will explain the different types that you will find.

And yes, this is all a massive generalization.

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The ‘Good’ Girl

The first, and probably most common, type is the good girl. Now, women are not inherently ‘good’ or ‘bad.’ They’re just well behaved, but I’m not going to sperg out over a semantic difference.

Anyway, the good girls you meet will usually be university students or recent graduates. Always under 25.

Note: A good girl will usually be married with at least one kid by 25.

They may have had a Vietnamese boyfriend in high school, but they have never had a foreign BF.

They will probably have a part time job, may live at home or with friends, want a serious relationship before putting out, never drink alcohol, and are disgusted if you utter the word ‘Bui Vien’.

In other words, these are NOT the type of girls that you can invite straight to your apartment on day 1 or to a bar, ever. They require a few daytime dates to get comfortable with you.

One more thing, they usually speak English at a fairly low level. That doesn’t stop them from seeking out foreigners though.

Girlfriend material?

Yes.

I wrote an entire article on meeting girls like this.

Dates before sex?

It can vary. Sometimes 3 dates and sometimes it’s on your wedding night.

Yes, if she’s having sex before marriage, then she isn’t really a ‘good’ girl. We have a relaxed definition of ‘good’ in 2018 though.

Plus, these girls will relax their standards for a rich foreigner with a European or American passport.

Where to find?

  • Vietnam Cupid.
  • Cafe.
  • Nguyen Hue Street in a group with her girl friends.
  • NOT at Bui Vien.

The ‘Kind of Good’ Girl

‘Kind of good’ girls are basically ‘good’ girls that speak better English.

Speaking English well is kind of like giving good blowjobs. You don’t just learn it naturally. It requires lots of practice.

Unfortunately, this practice involves immersing yourself in American culture by either watching Hollywood movies or interacting with lots of foreigners, which means exposure to feminism cancer.

These girls may be a bit more stuckup than a good girl and probably do not cook.

On the flip side, they are much more likely to put out.

These girls are a mixed bag to be quite honest.

The main point is if a Vietnamese girl speaks good English, then tread carefully if you want a GF.

How to spot?

  • Speaks good English.
  • Claims to only date foreigners because “Vietnamese guys are bad” is a major red flag (or green flag depending on what you want).
  • Might have a small tattoo on a hidden part of her body, her wrist, or her neck. This is a 100% indicator. Good girls don’t get tattoos.
  • If she’s single and over 25, then she automatically falls in this type (or the two types below this).
  • Hair dyed blonde or any other non-natural color other than brown reddish-brown.

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Girlfriend material?

Depends on the girl and what you want.

Again, be cautious of any girl that speaks good English.

Dates before sex?

Immediately after the first date or after the second date.

Where to find?

  • All over Tinder.
  • All over Vietnam Cupid.
  • At a bar with their Vietnamese friends.

The Bad Girl

Bad girls come at all levels of English. Just because a girl speaks no English does not make her a good girl, but it’s a decent bet.

Anyway, bad girls are basically a ‘kind of good’ girl with more experience. You can usually figure out if a girl is a bad girl pretty quickly.

How?

  • Wears short shorts.
  • Low cut top.
  • Somewhat pretty.
  • Wears high heels.
  • Lots of makeup.
  • Thousands of selfies on Zalo, Facebook, or Instagram.
  • Lots of thirsty white dudes leaving cringey comments on her Facebook pictures.
  • Tattoo.

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BUT SHE IS NOT A PROSTIUTE.

Girlfriend material?

No.

Dates before sex?

You invite her to a bar and do it that night. Or invite her straight to your apartment.

Where to find?

  • Tinder.
  • At a bar with her other bad girl friends.

Again, she might dress like a prostitute, but she is not a prostitute. Don’t make that mistake.

The Prostitute

Vietnam has a decent amount of prostitutes. Most of them don’t speak English though.

You will only really encounter ones that speak English.

These girls are like sharks. They have no safety net since their dad (if they have one, most don’t) has probably disowned them and they have no husband, so they have to be super aggressive.

How to spot?

  • Look for the girl wearing a skin-tight short skirt on Bui Vien or at Apocalypse Now.
  • Any Vietnamese girl alone at a bar is a prostitute. 99.9% of the time.
  • They usually have a tattoo, but not always. If it’s an obnoxiously big tattoo, then she’s a prostitute.
  • Fake boobs.
  • Showing too much cleavage.

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Girlfriend material?

Never, and I mean never ever, date a prostitute.

And no, you won’t change her. If you have the skills to change a prostitute, then you have the knowledge not to date one.

You know all those stories that angry white girls cite about white men getting killed by their Asian wife?

The dude always met the girl in a girly bar.

Dates before sex?

$90.

Where to find?

Prostitutes are like vampires. They suck your life energy (blood) and only appear at night.

They do love mirrors though. Not sure on garlic.

Anyway, you can find them at:

  • Bui Vien Street.
  • Any rooftop bar.
  • Apocalypse Now.
  • Hostess bars.

Final Thoughts

Those are the four types of women you will meet in Vietnam

Yes, the list isn’t super in-depth and detailed like my list of expats you will meet.

Quite frankly, most Vietnamese women are not interested in foreigners for a variety of reasons (mostly language and societal shame). It’s only a very small subset of the population that seeks out foreigners, which means that they’re all kind of similar.

The good girl scale is the best way to measure the kind of girls you will meet.

4 Comments

    1. Good and kind of good girls. Preferably the kind of nerdy and brainy girls.

      I can’t stand the bad girl/club slut type girls. Our personalities just don’t mesh.

      1. jeah thats also the type I like. Best would be a good girl thats just smart and speaks good english, so that you can have a “deeper” conversation from time to time

        1. I agree. Girls like that do exist, but they are rare. Though they usually learn English fast if you date them.

          Learning Vietnamese is another option, but ain’t no one got time for that.

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