Do you want to learn how to bang Asian sluts on Tinder?
Then you came to the right place.
Imagine what it would be like to have a different Asian slut bouncing on your rod every night…?
Look, Ho Chi Minh City is one of the easiest cities to bang Asian girls on Tinder (if you’re white). I get about 10 matches each swipe session and my profile kind of sucks. Some of these girls even initiate the meetup and first contact.
This guide will teach you my step by step method to getting these thots to meet you and get you laid on Tinder in Vietnam.
Step 1: Be White and speak English
Asian girls love white guys. Can’t deny that.
However, don’t worry non-white readers…
If you can speak English, then you should still be OK. You can speak enough English if you’ve made it this far.
All guys over here need to speak some level of English (or Vietnamese) and everyone just assumes all foreigners speak some English. Remember, you have to be able to at least COMMUNICATE with the girl to make it work.
Google Translate dates aren’t fun.
Step 2: Have Good Pictures
The best profile pictures for matching with Vietnamese girls are ones that make it look like you are an expat. That means wearing a nice shirt, properly smiling, and not looking like a degenerate begpacker loser.
DO: Wear a nice dress shirt.
DO: Make your skin look whiter (very important!)
DO: Make your eyes visible.
DON’T: Look trashy or ghetto in your main picture. Keep it for the other pictures, but try to avoid it.
DON’T: Have a beard in your picture. Seriously, Asian girls hate beards on guys. Like all women; they’ll be fine with it after a while. However, you will get less matches if you have a beard since Tinder is based on appearances and not personality.
Step 3: Write a good bio
Less is more. Keep it simple and just mention that you’re an expat living in HCMC. A lot of girls don’t read it anyway.
Don’t mention nationality unless you’re a darker skinned “American” or “European.” You want to make the girls guess because real men never give a direct answer to a question. We stay mysterious.
If they ask about your job, then tell them the industry and that’s it. Again, staying mysterious.
Don’t say you don’t work either. Just say you work online or ignore the question.
Not working is bad.
Note for Backpackers
If you are a backpacker, then you can still meet girls. Just mention you are on vacation and looking to get some drinks. Some will meet and some will not meet.
Just part of the game. The girls know what they’re getting into.
Step 4: Swipe Right
Personally, I’m very picky with my swipes and it works. The Tinder algorithm favors pickier users.
Focus on girls the same age, or younger, than yourself. You’ll have very limited success with girls older than you on Tinder. I wrote an article on meeting Vietnamese cougars if you’re into that, check it out.
However, older girls that match with younger guys will be much thirstier in my experience.
Step 5: Message Them
Message them. Don’t try and be witty, funny, or a douchebag like you have to do in America/Europe. The girls usually speak terrible English and you will only confuse them. Further, the girls are much nicer than American girls. Their response will 99% of the time be “Good thks. And you?”, which you respond “Good.”
Then message the girl something about what she does in Saigon or if she is a student. Doesn’t really matter. Just keep it to the interview style questions. Let this mindless banter go on for a few texts. Once you get bored with that ask, “Let’s meet. What is your Zalo number?”
99% of the time the girl will give it to you. Sometimes they ignore you after giving it though.
Just part of the game.
Add her on Zalo. They usually accept your request and you can begin talking to them on it.
I recommend setting up a date immediately. They get a lot of matches on Tinder.
You can still talk, but get the date setup.
Keep your standard texting rules. You can use the occasional emoticon with an Asian girl without losing value. Don’t do any double texting or asking needy questions.
IMPORTANT: Make sure to gently tease the girl.
Step 6: Initiate the Meetup
These girls are “busy” and work a lot of hours. Tell her, “Let’s meet for coffee at [café by your apartment]. Is Tuesday at 7PM good for you?”
Alternatively, you can just invite them out for drinks. Most of these girls don’t drink and will have a curfew though.
Drinks is almost a 100% that you’re getting it.
The girl will usually say yes to coffee if you weren’t a total goober and messed it up. Sometimes they say no because they are busy fucking other guys they met on Tinder, working (aka: playing on their phone), doing girl stuff, hanging out with their boyfriend, or doing girl stuff.
Step 7: What To Do At The Date
Look, standard date rules apply here. Trust me, this isn’t that difficult. I even went on a coffee date drunk one time.
- Don’t lean in.
Don’t look or act needy in general. Leaning in makes you look super needy. You do get a little leeway with acting needy with Asian girls. However, you still should not act too needy.
I can’t really explain this. It’s one of those things that you just know.
- Lead the girl.
Don’t be one of those guys that has the girl walk in front and choose the table.
Or says, “What do you want to do?”
You’re a man.
Choose the venue, pick the table, order your drink, choose your food, and lead her. Girls want to be led.
- Dress nice.
A pair of nice jeans, a polo shirt, and some dress boots is fine. A nice pair of long pants, a polo shirt, and dress shoes also works fine.
Here’s an article about dressing nice in Southeast Asia.
Honestly, you can wear shorts if you really want and probably be fine if you’re young and attractive (and white). I personally don’t recommend it though.
- Make eye contact.
This doesn’t need much explanation.
- Talk Slow
Some of these girls speak awful English. You should talk slow so they can understand you.
- Don’t Be Boring
A lot of guys are super boring. Save the nerding out about quantum physics for your dude friends.
Your date conversation should be simple and fun. Celebrities, funny stories, and other stuff like that.
You want the girl to laugh; not stare at her phone.
- Don’t act like you haven’t touched a girl in 8 months, even if that’s the case.
It goes back to not being needy. Calm, cool, and collected.
- Make sure to touch her forearm or shoulder during your conversation.
Make sure to make physical contact from the start. You want her to be comfortable with you touching her. Don’t do anything super #MeToo like grabbing her ass or masturbating into a potted plant in front of her.
- Tease her
Gently tease the girl. Don’t be a dick about it, but if she does something stupid, then call her out on it with a smile on your face. These girls aren’t American girls, so you don’t need to treat them like complete garbage.
- Pay for her half
Look, I know that us western guys are used to our dates paying for their half. Thank feminism for that.
You will struggle to find a feminist girl in Vietnam, so they will expect you to pay for everything. Plus, a good job here pays like $300/month. If you follow my money advice, then you should make plenty of money to afford $2 coffee for you and her.
Don’t be a cheap goober like some of the guys; pay for the date. It should cost under $2 for a coffee.
Step 8: Pulling To Your Apartment
Assuming the first date went well and you sense good chemistry, invite her back to your apartment.
If you’re a shy boi and scared, then read my dating guide for shy guys.
Can this be true? Will she go back on the first date?
These girls are using Tinder and meeting up with people for the same reason that everyone uses Tinder, so YES it can happen! You’ll also develop a good slut radar the longer you do this.
Now, don’t ask her to “see a movie in my apartment” or any other crap like that.
Just say, “Lets go.”
“Where we go?”
You, “My apartment. It is not far.”
Sometimes the girl will freak out and run away. Sometimes the girl will come back to your apartment. Typically girls over 25 will come back to your apartment on the first date. Hell, you can just invite those girls straight to your room and skip the date.
If you have built up enough interest, then this method will work more than it doesn’t.
Don’t worry if she rejects you on the first attempt to pull to your apartment. You can generally invite them straight to your apartment for the second date.
Step 9: What to Do At Your Apartment (Big Secret Revealed!)
Most of you should know what to do when you get a girl to your apartment, but some of you freeze up. I’ve been there myself (long time ago). Here’s a good ti…
If she goes back to your apartment, then she wants some sausage!
Ok. Here’s the big secret:
Don’t immediately make a move: Some guys make the first move the instant the door closes, which makes you look desperate. I like to ignore the girl a bit and act standoffish.
Trust me, girls will think “why hasn’t he made a move? Does he think I’m ugly?” and start freaking out.
Women can’t handle rejection very well.
More importantly, she’ll be more receptive when you make the move because she won’t know her next opportunity. Your penis and sperm are a scarce resource.
Don’t lower its value and give away your valuable sperm for free.
Make women work for it.
Mindset is the most important part of getting laid. You can’t show any neediness with girls and expect to have sex. Remember, your sperm is a scarce (valuable) resource. Thankfully, in Asia not being needy is extremely easy because Asian girls want to meet foreigners.
All you need to remember… if you fail with one girl there are always 20 more girls on Tinder. And even more at the café. And even more at the park that want to “practice English.”
The choice is yours. I prefer online dating (not Tinder) because it’s easier to stay productive. Approaching single girls at cafes works just as well though. Just ask them, “Do you speak English?” If a Vietnamese girls speaks good English, then she must have some sort of interest in meeting/interacting with foreigners, right? Maybe I’ll write a guide on approaching girls in cafes.
To sum up, it’s extremely simple to get laid in Ho Chi Minh City with Tinder. It does take time though.
As long as you’re meeting girls and putting sex on the table, then you will get laid.
It’s much easier than you think…