You will often hear men mention wanting a beautiful wife. And not beautiful in the cutesy, lovey-dovey way. We’re talking about porn slut beautiful. You know that type of woman…
Guys out actually there want to marry that type of woman. The type as hot as a porn star.
My reaction to that bizarre statement has always looked something like this…
I understand wanting to have sex with an attractive woman. Every high T male wants that. However, marrying an attractive woman is a terrible idea for two reasons:
First, you’re going to get bored having sex with her.
That’s right – bored. No matter how sexy she looks; you’ll tire of having sex with her. They call this phenomena the Coolidge Effect.
The Coolidge effect is a biological phenomenon seen in animals, whereby males exhibit renewed sexual interest whenever a new female is introduced to have sex with, even after cessation of sex with prior but still available sexual partners…
The Coolidge effect can be attributed to an increase in sexual responsiveness, and a decrease in the refractory period. The evolutionary benefit to this phenomenon is that a male can fertilize multiple females. The male may be reinvigorated repeatedly for successful insemination of multiple females. This type of mating system can be referred to as polygyny, where one male has multiple female mates, but each female only mates with one or a few male mates.
In plain English, men get bored with a long-term sexual partner. That’s simply how humans were designed/evolved. In my experience, this happens after about the 5th time having sex with a woman. After that, you’ll want a different woman. That woman may not be as attractive; she just has to be available.
Now, that doesn’t mean you should take on an R-selected mating strategy, and impregnate every woman on the planet. You could do that, but that’s a bad idea for a lot of reasons we won’t get into here.
You should focus on finding a long-term partner. However, don’t put much emphasis on her looks. Don’t marry the reincarnation of Quasimodo or anything – you don’t want ugly children. But you don’t need the sexiest woman on the planet either. An average to above-average thin woman is perfectly fine.
That leads to the second point:
Hot women are crazy, and not the cute kind of crazy. Most guys already know this. See the below video for a good explanation:
This begs the question, if hot women are crazy AND men get bored having sex with them, why do guys still marry them?
The same reason they buy Ferraris: to show off to other men. Kind of homosexual.
Like owning a Ferrari, guys will either be jealous, think you’re a try-hard, or not care.
Kind of defeats the point of showing off, eh?
Anyway, here are five things you should look for in a female partner. I’ll likely talk about these in-depth at a different time:
- Age (young)
- Looks (average to slightly above average, slender)
- Relationship with dad (good as possible)
- Ambition (very low… don’t date ambitious women!)
- Religious (high)
That’s really about it for what you want in a woman: Young, unambitious with a great relationship with her religious father.
It’s all you can really ask for in a woman. Don’t bother asking about her sexual partners…
She’s going to lie about that. Women lie about everything.
Religious are excellent for exactly one reason:
The big man in the sky will judge her for her sins… and women hate judgement because they hate responsibility. In fact, judgement is the best way to keep a woman inline. You should still know how to keep them inline, but religion makes the job 100000x easier.
Well, that about covers it. Don’t focus too much on bedding a super attractive women.
They ain’t worth the time nor headache, even in the short-term. If you want to bed a super attractive woman, then you should find a prostitute.
I obviously don’t recommend prostitution, but it’s so much cheaper in the long run.